Let’s be real—writing a Valentine’s card can feel like a lot. You want it to be sweet, but not cheesy. Romantic, but not a Hallmark movie. And most of all, you want it to feel real. The good news? You don’t have to be a poet to write something that’ll make your partner’s day.

Here’s how to keep it simple and heartfelt:

Start with Gratitude

Think of something they’ve done recently that made you smile or feel loved. Write it down. For example: “I love the way you always make me coffee before I wake up.”

Share a Memory

Remind them of a moment you’ll never forget, like the first time you met or a vacation you took together. It shows how much those little moments matter to you.

Dream About the Future

Write about something you’re excited to do together. Maybe it’s a trip, a project, or even just growing old together.

Example:

“I still remember the first time we met—how I couldn’t stop smiling the whole drive home. I feel so lucky to do life with you, and I can’t wait for all the adventures we still have ahead. You’re my favorite person, always.”

See? Simple, sweet, and you.

So this year, skip the cheesy card aisle and write something straight from the heart. Trust us, it’ll mean more than any store-bought card ever could.

Jessica Reinhart